A Place for Remembering and Changing

It is about time you found us. We have been waiting for you! Please make yourself at home as we conjure up some memories for you about the “good ole days.” Did you have an Aunt, Uncle, Grandma, or Grandpa who loved to share his or her memories? Weren’t those times enjoyable as the past was connected to the present? Have you ever gotten lost in a story, a movie, or even a song that took you back to a specific time, place, or person? If so, you have found the right place for remembering.

However, if memories are all that you are looking for, this is NOT the right place for you. What you will find here are real life anecdotes designed to show you that Blacks and Whites are quite similar but unique. You will be challenged to put aside ignorance which causes preconceptions and stereotypes. Don’t worry. You will not be scolded or preached at. In a subtle fashion, you will discover and remember what you already know in your heart. This site will allow you to put your life on pause and then cause you to be refreshed by your reflections on the “good ole days.” Perhaps this site will even help you improve your perception of racial issues in America. Please enjoy.

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The story revolves around two people who lived during the same time, roughly 1950 through the present. The setting is the Detroit Metropolitan Area. Now available on Amazon!

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Stormy Daniels (no, not that one)

“Put that down before you hurt someone or yourself.” “Get out of the bathroom and stop unrolling the toilet paper and drinking out of the toilet.” “Did you have to eat all the hamburger buns that were put ‘safely’ on the counter?” “You were supposed to play with the...

You’re So Hot

Sometimes I wonder how people trying to learn English can understand, much less use, different words and expressions. I remember one of my son’s girlfriends who was Danish and could speak and understand four languages. In a class at Michigan State University, she...

That’s What I’m Talking About!

Over the past fourteen months, Thomas Marsh and I have been diligently pressing forward with the message and conversation sparked by our Black and White Like You and Me book. This definitely has been a labor of love and commitment. Although we have received rave...

Glory Days

Whether it is our old Aunt Nellie or our dear Grandmother telling us about the “good old days” or Bruce Springsteen rocking about “glory days,” one thing is in common. As Bruce puts it, “Glory days, well, they’ll pass you by like the wink in a young girl’s eye.” Of...

Good Morning, America, How Are You?

I am writing this blog on July 4, 2017. I saw on the news this past week that a majority of young Americans are not proud of their country. As a sixty-eight year old white man, I find this poll disturbing. While I was preparing a song list for our Black and White Like...

Footsteps Part 1 vs. Fingertips Part 2

In 1963 at the Apollo Theater, 12-year-old Little Stevie Wonder amazed the audience as he entered the music world and has not stopped wowing audiences with his unique style. As we all know, an even greater intrigue of Stevie’s is that he is blind basically from birth....

Holiday Traditions

What a great concept! As Tevye said in the opening of Fiddler on the Roof: And how do we keep our balance? I can tell you in one word: TRADITION. If I take the time to consider our traditions especially triggered by this holiday season, the words of the Papa ring...

Blackie and Brownie

I recall early in high school, probably 9th grade in 1963, when my English teacher, who was certainly sympathetic to the social issues of the time, made us aware of the causes of skin color and pigmentation. Why, even within the races, is one person’s skin lighter or...